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An Ending and a New Beginning
Jan 24th
Posted by Nessy in Personal Messages
After nearly 6 years of working for corporate, this past Friday I finally had the courage to end this chapter of my life and pursue my dreams to become an entrepreneur.
I decided to partner up with a person who’s been a great influence for me, a hard-worker and a dream-fighter…my brother George also known as Chef Sazon. Our family own company, Chef George Catering, has been operating for the past 2 years. I’m jumping on board to run and take the business to a greater level. He has no idea what my plans are for him! Let’s just say, the next Iron Chef America
Veeah Media, is my design and interactive company to launch pretty soon. Stay tuned. I’m very excited about this as well as other business opportunities and dancing sugar plums in the works.
This is the part of the story where I’m hesitant, whether to rant about how my frustrations led me to this decision or share about the beautiful journey of my career. <sigh>
Simply I was fed up. Burnt out. Unhappy.
My motivation was slowly shutting down. I wasn’t growing or being challenged. I felt stuck in bureaucracy. I’m sure many have felt this way before and it’s a scary thought, to step out of your comfort zone and start all over again. The idea of walking away from a steady paycheck and health benefits to go on my own was terrifying but I knew it was time to move on.
Last week during my last days at the office as I packed my things and peel memories of the wall. I started to think of my early beginnings when I was just a recent grad out of college full of energy and I interviewed at this company.
Here’s how my interview and proposal sounded: “You will be replacing someone and that someone doesn’t know it…yet. During the transition he will make your life impossible, maybe cry, he will try to boss you around and most likely will not train you. You will have to learn our systems on your own …Do you still want the job?”
This was like some crazy-reverse-psychology-pansy way of forcing me to withdraw from applying to the position.
Clearly there were many challenges but I felt that this company needed help and I could do something about it. I was intrigued by the intimidation so I took the job and the rest is history
AND YES, the guy I replaced was exactly as described and more.
The “history” part are the great friendships I made along the way. The many-many times I pushed myself over the edge to learn…grow…excel. The challenges I ambitiously pursued to take the company and my career to the next level. The late nights, over-time and weekends to tackle projects and meet deadlines. The opportunities to speak at conferences and presentations that helped me overcome my stage fright problem. The fancy titles, ha!
I’m grateful for those six years. I matured, grew and accomplished many things. I’m going to miss my colleagues and the fun times that nearly got me written up. I always tried to bring unity and smiles to this company. I think I did a good job leaving my mark, see pics below
What I’ve learned in this journey is that “No person has the right to rain on your dreams”. Martin Luther King Jr. said that once. Make a change for yourself. If you are sitting there miserably, complaining about life, bitter about your job, wishing of a lifestyle you wish you had…Do something about it! Noone is going to make it happen for you. Do what’s necessary to reach the happiness level you want. Work your ass-off for the things, people and goals you believe in. Don’t let that fire in you and passion die, ever. That’s your motivation. And don’t ever let anyone hold you back. Stop using the economy as a reason to give up. You are never too young or too old to go after your dreams.
To a new beginning. To happiness. Here’s to keeping dreams alive. Yours and mine.
Nessy

Threw a Bachelorette party for a coworker at the office at 9AM. (I kinda didn't share the details when I asked permission, lol)

Putting together Tradeshows & Tech Conferences. Not sure if I will miss this, Ha! But certainly I will miss friends
I'm not a HIPPO just a gouda blogger
Mar 9th
Posted by Nessy in Personal Messages
I decided today to get back on track with my #5 new year resolution. BLOG for cryin’ out loud! My #1 resolution – Stop using “Not enough Time” as an excuse to NOT fulfill the rest of this list! Lol, pretty funny how I give myself attitude with “!” points. Those little upside “i”s do catch my attention. As well as moments like this morning when for the Love of God I could not remember my username nor password to login to an account I’ve logged in for the past 1,825 days at Suncoast. Ofcourse, this young pup does not need to write things down because it’s all stored in my head-drive. Four hours later it came to me and by this time realization hit me across the face. Info overload, new data wiping out old data. Exactly what happened to my cell this weekend. Coincidence or Sign?
Anyhow, i like to cut to the chase. I made up my mind to make an effort and deposit my dancing sugar plums into this humbly abode some call a blog. It’s 5Am in the morning and I have yet to go to bed. In a few hours my ass will be in the shower lamenting why I didn’t shut my eyes at a civil time with the rest of the Eastern timers. West side are you with me? I was commenting to a friend about a post I had seen and was interested to know if I would qualify for it. Just wondering, nothing series just a thought in head. His immediate response was you’re grammar and writing stinks! I’m no poet or eloquent speaker, I know my weakness. Out of all 10 skills required, I was out by one, a communications degree. I’m a total cheeseball, I could of told you that! Then he said that most employers would usually hire natives of the language to avoid people with poor grammar and composition. People like ME, latin? The conversation got worse than better. I’m a big baby and still thinking about it and now writing about it. Bothered by the comment of someone who has good insight of me, my goals and dreams. I will rephrase that line, someone I thought knew me. I don’t mind criticism, I mind the lack of etiquette to make it constructive not crushing. So I came to this country 20 years ago not knowing the language, took ESOL classes like forever, read encyclopedias to learn to write and speak cause that was our google back then….does that automatically make me an incompetent candidate?
If you are expecting great grammar, please exit this blog ASAP. I write about my occurrences, ideals and hot cakes. I stay away from HYPOcrites, the ones who love you enough to dig you in a hole for an instant moment of self gratification. I’m no better than you, news flash, you’re not better than me either. The world is filled with colors and animals. If I were to pick one of each, I’d be a blue rhino. Skin so tough, hard to penetrate. Passive-aggressive like the blue oceanic seas.
I SHALL RETURN…
Nov 5th
Posted by Nessy in Personal Messages
Oh my! It’s been a while since I blogged. I have abandomed my poor little wordpress. No worries, it’s been a very exciting summer. I will update you on all my events and great connection of resources I’ve gathered. I shall return strong
Stay tune my fans, lol
Vanessa






